6/14/2010
Auditor: Frank Davis
Midwest Tech Center in Indiana, USA
Hello Frank,
I wanted to send this to you weeks ago, but due to my pinched nerve in my neck I was unable to type very long. But am feeling much better now so am writing this to you to say “THANK YOU” for all you have done for me so far and for the future.
Because of you and Michael I have a couple wins that I would like to tell you about.
First. Michael left on May 18th for Texas . He planned to be gone a week or two and I saw at least 3 weeks. After dropping him off at the bus stop I went back to work. It was just like any other afternoon at work. My win was that I wasn’t worrying about being alone or if I could handle it or not (I haven’t been in this house alone more than a couple days in two years). Instead I was looking at what I could get done in the house while he was a way – massive Spring Cleaning – purging anything not needed. – two years ago I would have been a wreck after he left. To explain – when my ex-husband moved out I literally became a loner. I went to work, came home, ate, watched TV, and went to bed. Didn’t go anywhere or do anything. After 4 months I had finally decided to start doing things and see old friends. Well moving to a new place was a totally scary thing; at least I knew my old house and felt comfortable there alone. Michael moved in a couple weeks after I did and I felt a great relief to have someone else here. But now I am comfortable here alone. Thank you.
Now the other big thing I noticed. That same day I was driving home from work and I wasn’t nervous about the other cars (didn’t feel tense at all driving in traffic). I looked around and said to myself “we are all driving just fine, going home safe and sound”. Then I exited on to my highway home and I felt so at peace with myself and was enjoying the new plowed fields and the green fields, the farmers on the plows, the baby calves romping and playing with each other, the clouds and the sun. I was actually enjoying my ride home, so relaxed. And that is pretty much how it has been every day since; even the cloudy/rainy days are enjoyable. I used to get really stressed driving (as Michael would say it – yelling at all the drivers all the time). Now it is just an observation on how it amazes me that some people just don’t think when they are driving. Now if I find myself getting upset with another driver because they almost caused an accident – I blow it off and don’t let it stick to long. Can’t do anything about them, I didn’t get in an accident and I am not going to let them ruin my ride home.
I am so glad that I finally found what I have been looking for all my life. I had come to a point lately that I was beginning to question if all this auditing and travel was all worth it, now I can’t wait to see where it takes me.
Thank you Michael for that one night two years ago, where you said so much and told me to think about it and contact you if I wanted to learn more. You took a chance on me and I have not been the same ever since.
Thank you Frank for becoming my auditor, you have helped me so much and I am so looking forward to the next several years. Onward to Clear my dear Friend I am not stopping now.
With much ARC,
Ruth
