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March 26th, 2011

Grade 1 Attest

by Dexter Gelfand

March 16, 2011
PC: Tatiana Baklanova,
Auditor: Dexter Gelfand
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/
Case Supervisor: Dan Koon
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dan-koon/

I know that I am able to confront problems in whole, and by seeing my part of creating them, to control them, to change or stop them.

There is no need to have stuck flows. I’d rather let them be without ridging, and handle with communication, with ARC and granting of beingness. Problems continue if the wrong solution was used. My universe is now clear of stuck flow problems.

Thank you Dexter!

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March 23rd, 2011

A knowledge became my own subjective reality

by Dexter Gelfand

Here is the 2nd success story of Tatiana Baklanova, on her Grade 1 auditing:

15 March 2011 (2nd session)

Auditor: Dexter Gelfand
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/
Case Supervisor: Dan Koon
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dan-koon/

Success Story

That feels great! The more you struggle through the process, the more you are about to blow charges and to recover true data.

I thought I could confront only those of my problems that I have created, and change and stop those I started. It hadn’t crossed my mind that any “dangerous”, “uncontrollable” and “unsolvable” problems that others presented into my life I could also make mine, and control through spotting the moment when I allowed them into my universe, accepted and agreed with them. I feel more responsible now, and more in control!

Its not the “new knowledge” that makes me feel winning and happy, but the fact that it truly “came home” and became my own subjective reality, not just something “right” floating out there, but part of my universe, my viewpoint.

Tatiana Baklanova

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March 23rd, 2011

I feel truly alive now as I am learning and changing!

by Dexter Gelfand

Tatiana Baklanova is the indefatigable creator of numerous websites and producer of scores of videos promoting auditors outside of the CoS, a powerhouse of a being who is always making things happen to get others in session. She had been co-auditing on Grade 1, but her twin became unavailable, and she had been incomplete on the grade for some time. It was my pleasure to give Tatiana a little something back in exchange for all she gives us, and so I completed her Grade 1, which was very ably C/Sed by Dan Koon.
Auditor: Dexter Gelfand
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

This is the first of 3 success stories Tatiana was moved to write along the way, the others will follow shortly:

Success Story
March 15, 2011
Grade 1, Problems

I have realized two things I’d like to write down and share. (Before them, it is great to be in session again working up the Bridge. )
I understand that the best, easiest and most beneficial way to handle a problem is to increase ARC high enough to include the other terminal in your universe, and then opposition ceases.
I also realized that I’ve got to learn to grant beingness to others to let them work their way through their problems, as that is how they can grow.
I understand that I would rather handle other people’s problems to avoid my own because then I could drop mine on my husband, so that I could be effect and enjoy him handling my problems for me, as it proved that he loves me. The need of that approval was a shadow of past invalidation. Just knowing this was an automaticity helped me to turn it off. Let’s see if my life will be different with this new viewpoint! Thank you, Dexter! I feel truly alive now as I am learning and changing!
Tatiana Baklanova

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August 20th, 2010

New awareness on anchor points

by admin

August, 2010

Auditor: Dexter Gelfand
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

I’m particularly proud of this one. Rehabbed me as a case cracking auditor, brought back for me what I felt back in my CoS days, when I reveled in taking on the cases that others hadn’t succeeded to change. This was such a situation. I am fully back and better than ever as an auditor, and case programmer!

Success Story

Today I got a new awareness on anchor points. I saw that instead of just points that define a room or building or such that they can be a stuck point on the track, but not just some objective point. They have content, anything from charge, pain, love, heavy upset, thoughts, postulates, considerations, feelings, emotions, sensations, you name it. This is another way to describe a stuck point on the track, or a heavily charged incident.

I found an anchor with so much in it, it was a mock up of a being and all the mega ARC it represented. And the being had its own anchor point there as well, and still may. I have dropped my anchor / stuck viewpoint there, which was somewhere out there in the universe. In the moment of releasing it, I felt naked, disoriented and that it was okay to be myself and be off on my own.

Sometimes you just don’t want to let something go, it’s a problem in havingness, but something can be so desired, wanted and loved that one can lose sight of it being a game, and ARC itself becomes a trap. But no matter what game is played, for me ARC with fellow beings and sharing experiences is senior to the game, although some games are more fun than others. This old anchor point was the game of being on an eon long vacation of traveling around the universe and seeing the sites with someone I that shared very high mutual ARC. That is hard to let go of. How could I go it alone? I’m better oriented into PT and have a nice ease of intention in pursuit of my goals.

It’s a constant reaching to unravel one’s case. Day by day, process by process. I feel very good with Dex as my auditor, and feel great working with him to break through my case to higher and higher levels.

ARC,
Jeff

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August 18th, 2010

With Dex running the session, you are safe and in good hands

by admin

August, 2010

Auditor: Dexter Gelfand
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

Success Story
Mike Horton

Dexter Gelfand was my first Scientology auditor on Life Repair at CCNY circa 1989. I had recently discovered Hubbard’s works and was eager to see if there was anything to this “e-meter” and auditing. Just previously, I had experienced a few hours of “book one” with another person, which I had found quite interesting and illuminating.

Life Repair was a wonderful action; plus, to my mind, Dexter and I made a great team. We completed Life Repair in about 10 hours of auditing. In this short action, we covered and handled everything I was concerned about, was interested in, and wanted addressed. The stability from that action is still fresh and present today.

After Life Repair, there were some hours remaining and Dexter gave me most of my “Objectives” – again, to the highest standard and result.

This auditing was the best I ever had, reaching deeper and resulting in gains that could be termed permanent.

Soon after that, I lost track of Dex for over 20 years, as he left the “church” and my involvement was intermittent and spotty for years after that auditing.

During the later intervening years, I spent close to a half million dollars on auditing and some training – the preponderance of that auditing at Flag. While I had several excellent auditors and some good “wins” during that time, The results Dex and I got remain the best of the lot.

Recently, we re-connected on the ESMB message board and I count him among my best and closest friends, despite the fact that we live a continent apart and have not seen each other face to face since that time in New York 20+ years ago.

The relationship and connection between auditor and auditee (note no caps or jargon) is unlike others; and, the bonds established are, in my opinion, of permanent duration and exceptional power when properly established and maintained.

Dexter has my authorization to have anyone considering being audited by him contact me directly, person to person, if they so desire. He has my highest recommendation and trust.

Nothing above should be construed to relate to, approve of or recommend the organized “Church of Scientology” in any way, shape, form or fashion.

With Dex running the session, you are safe and in good hands.

Sincerely,

Mike Horton


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August 5th, 2010

Insights on a Summer Day

by Dexter Gelfand

August, 2010

Auditor: Dexter Gelfand
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

For some time now I’ve been enjoying the benefits of going in session, auditing others, and studying tech every day, and I’ve been experiencing expanded awarenesses in such a constant and fast moving evolution that many things just vanish entirely (as-isness). I’m frequently noticing the absence of masses and circuits, often with little or no idea of what their content was!

I’d like to share a few of my recent realizations (cognitions) with you:

I have eliminated so much GPM and ser fac content that I am now generally able to appreciate every viewpoint, and have little or no need or compulsion to dismiss any being, or the whole sum of their views as being unworthy of consideration. The fact that another expressed view doesn’t seem to align with one of my own is simply an opportunity to expand through being willing to experience the other view. It is not a “threat” to any “stable datum”, aka “fixed idea”. What a difference this makes!

I am now finding, that in every session in which I audit another, as I am applying my willingness to occupy and co-create the same space with my PC, that I experience their own viewpoints and cognitions for myself, and frequently “get” their new awareness just before they voice it! It has become real to me that we are all connected, that the “distance” in and of the MEST universe is an illusion.

I have also gained insight into why any aberration persists. It persists because there is a continuing unwillingness to as-is, and the basis for a continuing unwillingness to as-is, and thus withdraw from any game, is being stuck with the idea that there is a scarcity games, or a scarcity of better games. Rehab a being’s awareness of their ability to create games, and they can let go of the aberrations they are clinging to! (I have attached a passage from “Fundamentals of Thought” as a reference.)

These and many other new awarenesses and changes have come largely as a result of my ongoing co-auditing cycle with Frank Pate, experiencing the remarkable case gains available through Power Processing. Thank you Frank, my spiritual brother!

Love, Dex

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July 20th, 2010

Power and Power Plus

by Dexter Gelfand

July, 2010

Auditor: Dexter Gelfand
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

I have recently received Power and Power Plus.

Upon doing the 3rd step on Power Plus today, I spotted and as-ised the greatest ( for me ) overt of my entire existence.

The negation of “myself”, and the results since then denying “me” to exist, using all types of other mechanisms to confront life with, instead of just being me. The altering of self, to “fit” in with societies, and all kinds of strata of life, are seemingly endless. But the greatest feeling is that I dont have to do that anymore. This win being posted is proof-part or that change.

My auditor on this action is Dexter, and he’s doing a very effective and great job at running me on power ( this is not my first time receiving power, nor delivering it, I also delivered it to Dexter and 15 other cases in the last 3 months).

Thanks to you Dex, (I told you you could do it!).

My personal Wish is that all that have case issues, find yourself a good auditor who can deliver Power and get at it, your probably missing out on something, at least I and other were, And I have been audited by some awesome auditors over the years.

The wins of Power are VERY comparable to the L’s.

Frank

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June 25th, 2010

I can see it without my own computation blocking my looking

by Success Stories Admin

June 23, 2010
Dexter Gelfand – Grad V Field Auditor – Northern California
http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

Yesterday, I blew a really “interesting” computation on “martyrdom and nobility”.

It has been amazing to see how widely spread thru life today, that basic idea is, now that I can see it without my own computation blocking my looking.

Example: “being human, and allowing politicians, corporations, etc to call the shots in day to day life, is a great way to play martyr. the other side of course, are the “nobels”.
” I have nothing to do with”,  is easy to say if we play that game of martyr.  Letting someone else be responsible for your next step up spiritually, is also another great way to play martyr, and give the power to the “nobel” ones who do actually know. Since you obviously do not…..LOL.

In short,  I realized that even with that computation in play,  I still was striving to achieve a specific personal goal,  and a series of not so personal goals for EONS!!

One that I have achieved in this lifetime,  is “being” a dad. If there were any beingness I had to stick with forever, this one I could live with,  no doubt.  There is no greater “noble” purpose, then being there to care for,  work with, and gently guide another being as he/she makes their way thru the gangly,  sometimes awkward years of childhood, that hold so much simplicity and beauty shared with life around us.  Kids in general, are so much more native then adults,  before the bank starts moving in on them.

To all fathers today,  I wish you the happiness of many,  so that you may enjoy the beauty of  “being” a dad to your kids. Thank you for “being” such a beingness,  I  completely understand it.

Thanks to Dexter my auditor for his awesome auditing,  and this is okay to republish as any and all would like.

Frank

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May 12th, 2010

Major gain in solo session

by Dexter Gelfand

Dexter Gelfand
Grad V field auditor
Northern California

http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

In my solo session today, I had what was for me a transcendent increase in understanding of pan-determinism and individuation, which of course is the opposite of pan-determinism and also, I’ve come to realize, the opposite of, or the moving away from, the state of OT.

Individuation is the abandonment of viewpoint, and thus the withdrawal of beingness and responsibility. Acting harmfully toward another or others must be preceded by an individuation from those beingnesses, or viewpoints, which is individuation. If one hasn’t withdrawn from a beingness, then to harm that beingness would be to harm oneself, which is, of course antipathetic to one’s basic urge to survive, experience more pleasure, and less pain.

At the moment of realization, I felt a sense of all of my own  suppression of my connections to those terminals I’ve separated from drop away, and I felt a renewed interest and willingness to experience those beingnesses appreciate them and thus be in ARC. Before this, I was troubled by the fact of having severed ties to past terminals, and willingly maintaining that refusal to connect, and I didn’t know how to resolve that. I have thus attained a new and higher level of being whole on my dynamics. It is a very joyful state!

Love, Dex

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April 30th, 2010

I’ve got the best friends!

by Success Stories Admin

Dexter Gelfand
Grad V field auditor
Northern California

http://community.freezone-tech.info/dexter/

I just had a major gain in a solo auditing session as part of my solo course, part B. I became completely able to be without need to identify myself as anything other than simply me, free of fixed attitudes or mannerisms, able to be nothing- literally, no-thing. Identity is a MEST symbol, a way of being recognized as “something” in the material world, or MEST universe. It is a limitation to one fixed viewpoint within the MEST universe, and it springs from the obsessive need to be recognized as being something, and the fear of being nothing (see “The Story of a Thetan”)- no-thing, as in the definition of a static, I have achieved recognition of being a static. Identity limits and categorizes a being. Free of a fixed viewpoint for identification purposes, I am free to assume all views or no views.

I feel very free, unencumbered by mass, free of fixed attitudes and beingnesses. I can be at will, without restrictions, I can assume any and all views, without being confined to any one view.

I wasn’t expecting anything like this on this simple solo training action- there is so much tech on the material of releasing from valences- HRD, LX lists, NED (and earlier forms of engram running by chains), L’s, and more, and I feel like I’ve completely got it!

My power processing was certainly a springboard to being able to attain this. After Power, I noticed that I could effortlessly envelope another in my space, for instance on drilling assessments, I merely created the command, and had the coach simultaneously have the command, being right in my space. This is a level above and beyond the mechanical action of duplication through the communication formula of cause-distance-effect, because there is no distance necessary over which to impel the command. The command is here, the receipt point is here, therefore the receipt point has the command. Duplication is replaced by perfect as-isness. No distance for a command to travel means no possible degradation of the signal being generated, as it isn’t sent anywhere.

Identification of self with a thing, attitude or fixed viewpoint creates distance and the possibility of imperfect duplication. Not being stuck in a fixed point frees one to view from any point. Very freeing!

My gratitude goes out to my case supervisor/ solo course supervisor Frank Willis Davis of Midwest Tech Center, and also to David Thomas, for doing a great job of coaching and supervising me on solo drills to make me a much better solo auditor. Once again it is demonstrated, I’ve got the best friends!

Love, Dex

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